In politics, there's a difference between a comparison, a criticism, and an attack. Serious, mature candidates can handle the first two - even if it does hit a little close to home. However, nobody who is willing to go through the stress and strain of a public campaign should be expected to withstand bitter and personal attacks.
I've always made an effort to denounce these attacks when I am made aware of them, regardless of whether or not I agree with the philosophy of the victim. I worked to end overly personal attacks that targeted everyone from "concerned citizen" Julie Stout to the
daughter of Portsmouth Mayor Jim Kalb. I even found myself on the receiving end of an attack or two after trying to stop one of our area's numerous online thrashings from occurring. (Unfortunately, I'm unable to find any record of Doug Deepe's former postings) And, as somebody who vigorously campaigned against him in the previous election, I have to say that the ongoing
personal onslaught against Commissioner Skip Riffe is one of the most disgusting attacks I've ever witnessed.
During the campaign, after I criticized the Board of Commissioners for hiring a disbarred attorney as their legal counsel, I received an e-mail from somebody who apparently did not understand the difference between a criticism and an attack. The e-mailer hinted that they wanted to talk to me about the personal life of Commissioner Riffe. I did not treat it seriously, and neglected to follow the lead I was offered.
That's because this bedroom banter is undeniably personal and an obvious attempt to hurt someone rather than alter the course of our government or community. Not only that, but it degenerates a living child into a weapon of political assassination.
I don't think it's unreasonable to suggest that these attacks damage more than their intended victims. They hurt our entire community, and cheapen the democratic process. Later this year, Portsmouth citizens will be selecting their representatives on the City Council. Consider for a moment that the last time they had this opportunity, there was a noticeable lack of candidates. Part of the problem has to be the widespread fascination with keyhole journalism, and the tabloid trash that follows since few individuals are willing to put up with the public beating they risk by having their name appear on a ballot.
We have prevented the candidacy of countless leaders who possess the kind of knowledge and dignity that our community so desperately desires. And all because we sometimes fail to recognize these simple rules of engagement: It is fair to question how successful an officeholder has been at performing the tasks of their office. It is fair to question how they are spending our money. It is not fair to question if they are bad husbands, wives, fathers, or mothers. Those attacks cross the line, and it is in all of our interests for them to stop.
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